Something  special happened to me yesterday. I stopped at the drugstore after work  to pick up a few things. As I was checking out, a cute little girl was  asking the lady in front of me "Are you are a mom?" The lady  distractedly said yes and left the store. Then the little girl walked  over to me and asked me "Are you a mom?"  I thought about it for about  one second and said "Yes, I am." Then she said to me "Say it, say 'I'm a  mom'." So I did, and it brought a smile to my face. Then she said "Say  it LOUD. Say 'I'm a mom' REAL LOUD." So I did! She got a big smile and  said "that's how you do it!"  It made my heart soar to say those words  and say them out loud. You see, although I do not have a living child, I  am still a mother. I have a beautiful angel child who made my life  complete and made me ecstatically joyful for awhile while he was here. I  am the mother of an angel. I AM A MOM forever. I felt like she was a  little angel on earth sent to give me that reminder. Out of the mouths  of children. She and her mom don't know this, but they made a total  stranger so so incredibly happy, and I'm filled with gratitude for that  interaction. I am a mom, I am a mom, I am Andy's mom! It was real, he  was real, and I will see him again someday. 
Which  brings me to my request. I am a huge proponent of small random acts of  kindness. We don't know the hearts and struggles of all the people we  see each day, and we never know what small act of kindness can help  someone who really needs a ray of sunshine. Just like that little girl  did for me. So I thought about it, and I have decided to share something  I started doing and ask you to join me. I wanted to do something to  honor Andy's memory, so I made up little cards to give out with a small  gift. It doesn't have to cost anything. It could be something as simple  as a flower you picked or a picture you drew. Or if you have a little  money, maybe a $5 gift certificate to a store or coffee shop...anything  like that. Use your imagination! I print off the card, write a little  note inside, and attach it with a ribbon to the gift. Sometimes I wrap  the gift, sometimes I don't. Leave it in a public place...a bench at the  mall, the chair at the doctor's office, on someone's windshield,  anywhere! I promise you, it will make someone's day.
The "technical" part:
Click on the upside down text below. It will take you to another window. Select File/Print and print off. Cut down to size.  Fold on the dotted line so "To Any Finder" and the heart are on one side and the message is on the  other side. Write a  message inside if you like, or not. Leave it with the gift and smile as  you walk away. Don't let anyone see you do it...make it anonymous. 
Please let me know if you do this and how it made you feel! Help Andy and me share the love.  Thank you!!!!!!

You are absolutely, always and forever a mother. You will find that many small children speak to you now, and once in awhile, Andy will speak through them. I promise you !
ReplyDeleteThank you! <3
ReplyDeleteI can tell you have a big heart. I am sure your son Andy is smiling down on you. I have some things that I will be releasing in 2013 that is somewhat similar. I will share in the group later. I love you ANGEL MOM!
ReplyDeleteAWESOME ANGEL MOM!!!! LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS will be borrowing this idea
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